Fights can break a relationship. But there’s an obverse to this statement as well – if you fight fair, arguments can strengthen a relationship and iron out differences.
In other words, all disagreements between partners aren’t bad – they bring festering issues in a relationship out in the open and provide both partners with an opportunity to reveal their innermost feelings to each other.
Counsellors say that if you are planning to get hitched, the more you fight about certain things before the nuptials, the better will be your understanding of each other’s perspectives. Just remember to pick your battles wisely.
Here 4 crucial issues to fight about before getting married:
1. Social media behaviour
If you do not like the fact that your partner is prone to plastering his/her social media timelines with updates on your relationship, sort the issue out. Your partner may justify his/her propensity for baring all on social media, but do not shy away from expressing your reservations. Similarly, if your partner objects to you stalking your ex on social media, this can be one argument that can help you both to devise a post-marriage social media strategy.