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9 Nigerians Talk About Being Into BDSM


BDSM is an umbrella term for any activities under Bondage, Domination and Submission, and Sadomasochism. A lot of people still consider it unconventional sex, so we got 9 Nigerians to talk about their active participation in BDSM.

9. Ada, 24
I have a daddy kink I think I got into it in secondary school. Honestly, I didn’t know it was a thing but I always liked the idea of having someone to take care of me. I don’t like regular relationships where people don’t “talk” or aren’t accountable for the other party’s feelings. When someone fusses about what I eat or wear and gives me lots of attention, I really like it. I like the idea of being a sweet baby girl with a daddy who loves me. The daddy in question is obviously not my biological father.

I got deep into it in 2018 after my last ‘normal’ relationship. I had one man that said he was into being a daddy, and would always tell me that he loves me and send me money. He loved watching cartoons, so we would stay up talking about stuff we liked, but he was married so I had to ditch him. I didn’t want sex at the time, I just wanted hugs and affirmations. Just the rush of hearing your partner say “Daddy loves you” feels so good. Knowing that someone is there, the person really gets you and would do anything to make you happy is what I really like about it. I’ve tasted what having someone who loves me like that feels like, I’m not going back to the ghetto.

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