Big Brother Naija star Mike Edwards won the heart of many when he openly declared that he was married before going into the house, and remaining faithful during his stay in the competition.
Mike, just like the other men in the house, got close to the ladies, but he was loved during and after the show for staying faithful to his wife.
Fans have continued to ask how he did it, and so in a post on his Instagram, Mike is explaining his resolve, and mentioned that it was largely due to him marrying an incredible soul.
How do you stay faithful? I get asked this question a lot lately and despite the obvious reason of falling in love with the most incredible woman whom I get to call wife @itspsd .
I figure I’d write my answer here for what it’s worth.
Well, my answer is strength no weakness. A man with no self discipline will fall weak and lead astray, having the discipline and respect for yourself and significant other becomes a habit, and with time habit becomes second nature.
I would also say that sacrifice is a vital part of what has helped me. The key is you have to be able to sacrifice who you are, (ex. old habits) for who you’ll become, don’t be afraid of taking the road less traveled in the process.
Hint: Find yourself spiritually. ??
Lastly, your environment. I believe in the saying you are the company you keep. My advice is surround yourself with people who have similar standards and family values as you.